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Helping Teens Cope with Life’s Pressures: Part 1

Part 1: Understanding Their Struggles

By Karla Andrews, INHC, Chef, Publisher MK Mansfield-Burleson TX March 14, 2025

The Pressures Teens Face Today

Teenagers today deal with more pressure than ever before. From social media and friendships to schoolwork and future plans, they often feel overwhelmed. A recent study by Common Sense Media, Harvard College, and Indiana University found that 81% of American teens experience stress about things like success, appearance, and planning their future.

It’s no surprise that many teens feel burned out. More than one in four report symptoms like exhaustion, feeling uninterested in things they used to enjoy, and not caring as much about school or hobbies. The study identified six main areas where teens feel the most pressure:

  • Future Planning: More than half of teens feel stressed about figuring out their future—whether it’s college, career choices, or relationships.
  • Achievement: About 53% feel the need to excel in school, sports, extracurricular activities, and even part-time jobs.
  • Appearance: Social media plays a big role in making 51% of teens feel they must look perfect and fit in with current trends.
  • Social Life: Around 44% compare themselves to others and feel pressure to have an exciting social life.
  • Friendships: About 41% believe they must always be available for their friends, like answering texts right away.
  • Activism: Roughly 32% feel the need to stay informed about social issues and be involved in making a difference.

These challenges don’t just affect teenagers. Younger kids, especially those starting middle school, also experience similar pressures. As they go through changes in their bodies and emotions, they may feel the weight of school expectations, social life, and self-image.

Helping kids navigate these pressures is important. In the next part, we’ll explore ways parents and caregivers can support them in building a healthier, more balanced path forward.